Breaking The Cycle: The Sharing of Trauma Between Mothers and Daughters
Epigenetic research shows that we pass on the story and fears of our ancestors, including unresolved trauma that is being carried forward from generation to generation. A type of shared trauma between mothers and daughters, passes counter-intuitive behavior patterns across the progeny.
In order to break this cycle, someone has to recognize how their own behaviors, whether internal or external reactions, are enabling this hurt. With this comes a need to reflect thoughtfully on who we are as individuals and how our actions are shaped by our experiences and imbedded subconscious memory.
Trauma Shapes Personalities
People speak of harmful behaviors, but there is very little thought given to why and how those behaviors come to be. For this, we need to understand that all of our actions originate from what you know and understand of the world.
As children, when we begin to form personal relationships, we are also creating a model for how we stand in relation to the greater universe. Parental relations are the bridge between our spiritual selves and our physical being, for early childhood is a time when children realize what their true essence is or receive impressions that are not accurate of their true self. Our interactions with our parents create beliefs about the world and self that most often aren’t conducive to our spiritual and emotional growth.
As we grow older, these ideas are reinforced through a repetition of story which create the same feelings we had as a child. We all continuously relive experiences based on the only lens that is given to us.
This spiritual and emotional disconnect is then transmitted to our children through the form of maladaptive behaviors. As a result we may try to compensate for this shortcoming in ways that might stop everyone from fully enjoying the joys of human connection.
Traumatized Personalities Spread Trauma
This overcompensation spills on to our children. This dynamic is even more pronounced between mothers and their daughters considering how the mothers are a model for their daughter’s self-image.
As the mother, or father, begins to interact with her daughter, or son in counter-productive ways, a lot of hurt hinders the child’s social and spiritual development. This is how trauma unconsciously spreads across generations. UNLESS someone decides to break this cycle to help successive generations achieve spiritual and emotional enlightenment, the internal conflict continues to pass down the familial line.
In working with the Depth Hypnosis model you are able to see your wounded aspects and the recycling of emotions, perceptions and beliefs from the periphery of your personal story, understanding how trauma passes from past life experience, womb regression, child regression, and moment of death experiences. Through the work done at Seeds of Satya your healing not only equates to one, but many, including your children. It has been said throughout all spiritual paths by shamans and enlightened beings that when we heal ourself, we are healing seven generations before us and after.
At Seeds of Satya we use spiritual and energy healing in Asheville, NC and Denver Co, working worldwide through powerful remote work, using Depth Hypnosis and Nature Based Healing Retreats on sacred powerful healing land, helping mothers and daughters move beyond their past to develop healthy and wholesome relationships with one another. Our focused retreats are designed to help them heal emotional, mental and energetic bonds that free generations of women before and after each participant. Get in touch with us today for more information on our mother-daughter retreats in Asheville, North Carolina and Denver, Colorado.
Kari Rivers, Spiritual Counselor & Depth Hypnosis Practitioner is here to help you flourish and see into the nature of your reality, Awakening Truth Within & Magic Without.
“From the moment I spoke to Kari on the phone I knew l was led to the right place. After living a life filled with Trauma I felt truly healed by session #3. My life truly has been changed by Kari I feel so much gratitude for her guidance.
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